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About Reflections of a Super Stew

Ex-flight attendant turned army wife- Reflecting on the life of 2 flight attendants based in NYC. Travelling the world together, marrying the weekend after 911, Proving love conquers all as the adventures continue. Currently serving in the US Army. I reserve the rights to all written blog posts, and photos at https://superstew39.wordpress.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/superstew39

The short list just got shorter- An homage to Chris Cornell

I never wanted to write these words down for you… If you knew me, you could not help but see how many aspects of my life seem to have moved in this circular motion, somehow always making these ironic connections. … Continue reading

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Not Quite A Year

The words spoken by my husband resonated in my head, “maybe we’re not meant to be here.” Can it be true? Maybe. It is certainly not for a lack of trying…but for a long time, it seems that things have … Continue reading

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Two-Way Street

Sometimes it gets old always being the one to initiate a friendship, or keep one going; a conversation, a phone call, a visit, a card, a letter, a gift, or a message. It’s tiring. And for years in many of … Continue reading

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Pipe Dream

Pipe dream: a hope, wish, or dream that is impossible to achieve or not practical–Merriam-Webster. In a perfect world, flights would take off and arrive on time. Airplanes would not break down, and people would not be rude. Flight attendants would … Continue reading

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She Buried Her Little Boy Today

She buried her little boy today, As I try and figure out what to say…that could possibly take the empty feeling away, I realize that nothing can do that. Ever. I try and plug my ears, while the world complains … Continue reading

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Why It Doesn’t Matter That Your Husband Is An Officer And Mine Isn’t, Revisted

This happens so rarely, but when it does, it quickly becomes very awkward and unwelcome. Not the first time I’ve written about it either, and I’m sure it won’t be the last…so just don’t be this spouse. Please, I’m begging. … Continue reading

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How do working moms do it?

As I woke up and prepared for my first day of working in over a year, it was also the second day of school for my children. In typical 6-year-old girl fashion nothing fit, or matched. Shoes felt tight, every … Continue reading

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