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About Reflections of a Super Stew

Ex-flight attendant turned army wife- Reflecting on the life of 2 flight attendants based in NYC. Travelling the world together, marrying the weekend after 911, Proving love conquers all as the adventures continue. Currently serving in the US Army. I reserve the rights to all written blog posts, and photos at https://superstew39.wordpress.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/superstew39

She Buried Her Little Boy Today

She buried her little boy today, As I try and figure out what to say…that could possibly take the empty feeling away, I realize that nothing can do that. Ever. I try and plug my ears, while the world complains … Continue reading

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Why It Doesn’t Matter That Your Husband Is An Officer And Mine Isn’t, Revisited

This happens so rarely, but when it does, it quickly becomes very awkward and unwelcome. Not the first time I’ve written about it either, and I’m sure it won’t be the last…so just don’t be this spouse. Please, I’m begging. … Continue reading

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How do working moms do it?

As I woke up and prepared for my first day of working in over a year, it was also the second day of school for my children. In typical 6-year-old girl fashion nothing fit, or matched. Shoes felt tight, every … Continue reading

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Looking for a house in the town I live in

Starting to have a love-hate relationship with this town. After a year of looking for a home to buy- New ad: Looking for a home in [fill in town here]? “Ask me first. Chances are I’ve had an offer on … Continue reading

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A year

It has been longer than one year since I began this post about my grandmother’s death. Continue reading

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Home Again

The curtain lifts to a sea of camouflage. Boots. Legs. Faces. But I can’t find you. We walk down the center of the room…letting you find us. There you are. Slow motion. Can’t get there fast enough. This moment suspended … Continue reading

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Pacific Beach

Beach for miles and the quiet of no people. The kind of solitude that almost makes me like the West Coast better. A little fog lifts off the sea and floats in and back out again. If you give it … Continue reading

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